Immigrant’s Postcard: The Child is the Grandmother of the Woman

A series on my experiences as an immigrant in Canada

It’s the first day of swimming lessons for my husband and me. After the class, the instructor suggests we practice in a different lane. Apart from the two of us, a young Canadian girl and a gentleman from Pakistan join the practice. I am still practicing floating when a girl, snow white in complexion and no more than five years old, walks across the deck to stand near me.

“Is the water warm or cold?” she asks me.

“It’s not too cold,” I say.

She jumps in and squeals in delight, “It’s warm!” then jumps right out.

As we float, holding on to the deck wall for our dear lives, she asks me,

“Are you and him, Mom and Dad?” She points with her eyes to the Pakistani gentleman, floating in a corner away from the three of us.

“Me and who?” I ask her.

She points again to the Pakistani swimmer, saying, “This one.”

“No,” I say and draw her attention to my husband, floating right next to me, “Me and him are together.”

“Ah, so you are parents,” she says knowingly.

“No,” I simply say.

“So you are grownups.”

“Yes.”

“You are going to have a baby?”

“No.”

“You have a baby,” she says, rolling her eyes.

“No, I don’t.”

“I know you do.”

“No…”

“The baby got out. I know it did.”

With that, she walks away, casting one last all-knowing glance my way.

I beseech, “No!”

But to no avail. By now the little lady has already moved on.

READ ALL IMMIGRANT’S POSTCARDS HERE

Photo courtesy: http://vdleek.blogspot.ca/

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24 thoughts on “Immigrant’s Postcard: The Child is the Grandmother of the Woman

  1. dear bhaswati

    it was wonderful reading ur immigrants post card.congratulations. i worked omn migration for several years though in a different discipline but i admire ur simple way of recording things which gives a complete picture of an immigrant sometimes happy sometimes sad.sometimes ironical witty and humorous. hope u keep writing.

    amit

  2. Dear Amit da,

    Thank you for reading and commenting. I am sure it will be very interesting to read about your experiences and insights on migration.

    1. Umashankar, the refreshing candor of children can really leave us speechless at times. I had fun too. Thanks for reading and commenting.

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