A series on my experiences as an immigrant to Canada
So we’ve been living in a new city for the last ten days. Last week, on my way back home from the indoor market (housing local farmers, butchers, bakers and dairy owners), I got lost–for the second time in three visits. Severely direction-challenged that I am, this isn’t new to me. A lot of times, I actually enjoy losing my way, only to find myself in an interesting part of the city. When this happened to me in London about three years ago, I remember having walked into the area of Soho, where the evening seemed eager to graduate to the tantalizing night ahead. I was in London for the first time and might not have visited Soho alone in a planned manner. Getting lost thus pushed me into an experience, which though unexpected, turned out to be memorably charming.
Back to last week’s loss-of-direction episode in my current city. When I finally realized my mental mapping skills were not taking me any closer to home, I sought a fellow-walker lady’s help. Thanks to her accurate directions, my feet quickly found solid ground and marched toward our apartment complex.
A couple of hundred meters from the apartment complex is a casual eatery with patio seating outside. As I passed the cafe, I heard an elderly gentleman asking a couple sitting in the patio for some help. I couldn’t hear well, but I heard him say, “My Alzheimer’s…” to which the gentleman sitting at the table on the patio said, “Well, you are still very much in London, sir.” By then I had moved farther. When I turned back, the lone, walking gentleman no longer stood next to the patio.
Even as I tried to make sense of the streets and intersections to reorient my geography, here was a man wandering with fractals of memory and no compass to rely on, wondering if he was still in the city where he started his walk.
It struck me then that we were in a city of the aging, with more visible services for the elderly than possibly any other demographic group.
London, Ontario that is.
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5 thoughts on “Immigrant’s Postcard: Walking with Memory Shards”
Life is filled with fun little adventures, if we watch for and enjoy them, rather than immediately get frustrated and angry.
I couldn’t agree with you more, Terry!
Just found your blog from random googling. As a fellow Canadian immigrant (and Bengali too!), I find your blog to be pretty awesome! Keep at it!
P.S: Looks like you missed out on a whole host of Bengalis in the GTA, Next time in town, check out Kalibari (http://www.kalibari.org/) and the Tagore Center (http://kalsden.com/pbca/), The local Vedanta society (http://newsite.vedantatoronto.ca/) is practically run by Bengalis 😉
Thanks for your kind comment, Prasenjit. I did have a wonderful experience of attending last year’s Durga Puja at both Kalibari and Tagore Center. 🙂
Good information. Lucky me I ran across your blog by
chance (stumbleupon). I’ve book marked it for later!